Tips for casual dating
Maybe you decide to go the distance with the random girl you've been chatting with on Tinder, maybe it's your old college fling with the lazy eye, maybe it's the WELP you always find in your bed… It's certainly not the most eloquent sentence to say, but sometimes you have to just be like: "I'm lonely and we should bone." Chances are, they'll at least give you pity sex.And that's about as good as lukewarm pizza: good enough.Aside from turning your head to the left or right and dating the first person you see, just ask.Talking about your past relationships has become the gold standard of first date icebreakers. The rebound relationship is the perfect time to cross the threshold and crumble the proverbial dam that separates friends and lovers.Seriously, treat the rebound with respect, but use the relationship as a chance to discover what you can and can't do in the company of others.
At the end of most rebounds, you get at least one broken heart and a pair of people who will ultimately continue the trend of using people to get over other people.The key to a relationship -- good or bad -- is planning.You can be planning a European vacation or a trip to KFC for some lava-hot wings. So, why not apply that aspect to the relationship you're feeling pretty "meh" about?!Since we're a generation of settlers, let's just accept the fact that you will have a rebound relationship soon. Same thing people did on December 31st, 1999 -- prepare for the worst and hope that you won't have to resort to eating cans of tuna fish in your basement.Here's how to find a rebound that won't make you want to die. He or she is just good enough to hold your attention, but certainly not someone you want to spend your time with.