Im dating a man with a child
Making excuses for his poor choices and cleaning up his social and emotional messes doesn’t allow him to grow or learn from them.This is one of those cases when we think we are helping him but truly we are not. Talk of Commitment or Children Brings Panic To His Eyes: Slow and steady wins the race, so if you have been together for a while and panic comes to him whenever you talk about the future this is a sign.
Panic, anger, avoidance, deflection are all warning signs and you may need to have a heart to heart with him. You Feel as though you have to Nag Him Constantly: No one wants to nag people or continuously remind someone of their obligations and responsibilities.
If he struggles to follow through with plans, projects or commitments then this is a sign.
When you kindly remind him of his promises does he get angry with you?
Basically, if you feel like the parent of a teenager then there is an unbalance in your relationship and something needs to change. He Avoids Having Serious Conversation: If you come to him wanting to express your feeling and connect on a deeper level and he plays it off like it is a joke or makes light of it that may be a big sign that he is uncomfortable with his own feeling and hasn’t matured emotionally.
The last thing a ‘Man Child’ wants is for you to tell him that there is a problem in your relationship.